Malis came to Hagar two years after being raped at the age of nine by an older family member. After reporting the crime to the local authorities, Malis was referred to Hagar for help including legal support. Despite the fact that it took almost two years for Malis’ case to be brought to court, Hagar’s Legal & Protection Officer, Sotheary, journeyed alongside Malis through many postponements and frustrations. Sotheary worked closely with Malis to build trust and prepare her for court, showing her Hagar’s children’s book and talking to her about what to expect. She also helped Malis’ parents to better understand how they could support their daughter including bringing along some of Malis’ toys to help her feel more comfortable in court.
On the day of the trial, Sotheary, together with Malis’ counselor, organized safe transport, breakfast, and snacks for Malis. While she was nervous, and describes herself as shaking as she walked in, Malis says the preparations and support gave her courage.
Throughout the proceedings, Sotheary made sure that Malis was able to take short breaks. When Malis’ perpetrator spoke in court, Sotheary placed a screen in front of him so that Malis would not be re–traumatized by seeing him. When it was her turn to speak, Malis recalled “I was scared. My heart was beating so fast, and it was hard to breathe,” but she was able to speak with strength and determination.
A month after the trial, the perpetrator was sentenced to seven years in jail. Malis expressed her happiness and relief by saying, “I didn’t need to worry anymore; I know the perpetrator is in jail.” Without Hagar’s support, Malis’ case could have taken 5-10 years to see a verdict.
Malis’s journey with Hagar has inspired her for her future. When she grows up, Malis wants to be just like Sotheary and help advocate for survivors of abuse. But until then, Malis will continue going to school. Now eleven years old, she cooks meals for her family and loves playing with her friends, whom she cites as a source of strength and encouragement for her.
Hagar pursues the highest degree of care and protection for each of its clients. To protect the identity of our clients, names have been changed and images do not necessarily represent the individual profiled.
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By partnering with Hagar, you’re supporting survivors to heal from the trauma of severe abuse. Our work is dependent on charitable giving by people like you.